The things we do for the ones we love. Also the things that r done for us by the ones who love us. Amazing acts of love that surround us is a blessing that we take for granted sometimes. It doesn’t matter if that person was a friend, a close friend, a family relative, a cousin, sibling or parents. The amount of love we have inside us for them can’t be expressed sometimes with words, but actions sometimes can show others that love we have for them. Sadly, some people take our actions for granted and expect these actions as something that we are supposed to do, their right to receive.
I think it depends on how close and important that person is to you reflects your tolerance to their non-appreciation reactions.
If you ever felt you did that to someone, didn’t appraise them or appreciate them enough, you still got time to pick up the phone or go to them and tell them how thankful you are; but if you felt unappreciated then just act the way you are as you are doing it because you want to not because of the appraisal.